I had read many personal development books and “intellectually” understood change but was not creating much in terms of new results in my life. People would ask me for advice; I would give it to them based on my knowledge. Though I had “knowledge”, I had not reached wisdom the application of knowledge. I understood the principles, yet had not learned them - a very significant distinction. Though people around me thought I was brilliant and wise, I was just reciting what I had read. Similar to the Professor who teaches Marketing yet has never owned his own company, or worked out site of the University - it’s concept verses experience.

I correlate it to weight loss, weight loss is something hundreds of millions of people understand conceptually eat healthy, be active, exercise, create a healthy life style simple to understand, but they lack the ability to apply the information. In this case knowing does NOT make a difference.

Landmark is a conversation, a 3 day conversation between the participants and a well trainer, dynamic Facilitator. This conversation takes place with people, just like you and me, from all walks of life. In the Landmark Forum, I discovered how much I limited myself and how my past experiences, were in fact governing my life and my future. It’s was essentially the process of recognizing and subsequently releasing things that were not me. Sounds a bit strange, I know…I identified the areas of my life where I was reactive (I had no idea!) and learned I could respond instead. The result; I am now able to choose my path from what is possible in the future, without unconscious direction from my personal history.

I learned (emotionally), I create my future and my life. My history and perceived failures only impact me when I give them attention and make them a part of my identity. With the tools from the Landmark Forum I trained myself to focus on what is possible and what I could give the world when I reconnected with my dreams.

Since 2000, I have written a book Thinking Your Way to Happy! I have trained in many Coaching techniques. I have become a Strategic Change Coach an Expert in the Media on the human condition and I have traveled globally and been truly privileged to share my empowering philosophies with High Risk Youth, Corporations, Women’s Shelters, The Board of Education, CEO’s, Celebrities, Homeless People... Humanity. Bottom line, I would not have taken this path without this program.

Is life perfect you ask? NO. Not at all. In fact, I probably have more challenges now because I am going after the things I really want – things I’ve dreamed up. Yet, I can honestly say I am living, (not just alive and breathing), I have courage most of the time, and there is a certain freedom in testing myself.

This course is offered globally, I believe in 45 Counties or more…it takes courage to let go of what is familiar, even the stuff you don’t like find a way…. This course will uncover ways to recreate yourself in Business, Love, Communication, Family, Health and Community. If you are considering this program and have questions, please send me an e-mail (or just sign up) – the Toronto Centre phone number is 416.777.2230.

Doing research?…

Remember, people find negative things to say about Oprah and Obama (come on, he inherited a mess!). Personally, I see them as two extraordinary individuals that are consistently focused on unity, contribution and healing this world. Some people criticize Mother Teresa’s work …. the fact is - she helped and contributed to millions. So, just like any new food, sport or movie, choose for yourself!

The following week, while chatting and enjoying their Goji berry pastries, Kayga noticed in the distance the farmers work horse returning, however the horse was not alone it was being followed by 20 wild stallions. Kayga, who always looks to evaluate and analyze a situation; “Look, look what your horse has brought you,” he said. “This is so good! As it turns out you are a very lucky man! At first I thought you were unlucky but now I am sure luck is with you.” The farmer looked at Kayga with all his wisdom and thoughtfulness and replied; “Well Kagyu, in truth… it could be good, it could be bad; we don’t know yet”.

Soon after, the farmer’s son was in the field during a rain storm when one of the horses was spooked by a loud crash of thunder startling all the other horse. As a result the farmer’s son was trampled and left badly injured with bruised ribs and two broken legs. “Oh no!” said Kagyu. “Your son will take months to heal! How bad for you. You are unlucky after all.” The Zen farmer calmly replied; “It could be good, could be bad; we don’t know yet”.

A few days later, on a trip into town to retrieve supplies for the week Kaygu noticed signs posted everywhere stating that all healthy boys were to be sent off to war in a neighboring country. Kayga again shared his perspective; “At first I thought luck escaped you when your horse ran away but it returned and multiplied, then I was certain luck escaped you again when your son was injured – it seemed so clear, but now I can tell you with certainty, luck is with you. Your son is spared from war. “After much consideration I now see, this is good,” The Tibet farmer looked over at Kayga and replied:” Please hear me for the first time my dear friend. It could be good, it could be bad; we don’t know yet.”

The obstacle is the path.

Zen Proverb

What is the book about?
Thinking Your Way to Happy is all about being happy and restoring choice in areas of life where, at times, it may seem as there is no choice. Human beings are creatures of habit. The brain loves the comfort of repetition even if it brings great pain and suffering. People, everyday make choices to; be late, over eat, or to be too busy or stressed for their children, to ignore the budget, to delay health, to hold a grudge, to react instead of respond, to indulge in immediate gratification – essentially people choose to neglect important areas of their lives – yet often, it does not occur as though any choice is involved in this process at all.

The books fundamental message is about governing your thoughts and interrupting automatic behaviors in favor of personal freedom and results that inspire. The intention of the book is to help you to begin to think from a new place, thus engaging the frontal lobe, the area of the brain responsible for conscious choice. The more you do so, the easier the process of change becomes. The book addresses taking yourself off auto pilot with your reactions and habit; letting go, and new beginnings. It’s through tiny internal shifts in your perspective that massive external changes can come about in love relationships, career, finance or health.

This delightful book also identifies the most common ‘Happy Traps’ to look out for; ‘Give up the someday, one day, when day, western mentality where you reserve joy and happiness for when your business is finally thriving, you lose that extra weight, your credit cards are paid off or you meet that special someone.’ Thinking Your Way to Happy! asks you to connect with joy today, now, instead of the ever illusive future.

This gem of a book, addresses the limitations in our thinking via conditioning. The world is flat, the world is flat, I know this because the experts said so…, mentality essentially how information unchallenged (true or not) can shape our reality. Ultimately any changes in life will be witnessed only after changing in ones thinking.

Why are you the best person to write this book?
As a child I was increasing perplex when people around me we’re unhappy. To me the option of being joyful and in the moment was the only appealing choice. As a Coach, it has become my life’s work to explore how human beings create lasting change in their lives. My intention is to provide information that expands awareness in order to experience a greater sense of control over daily choices AND to better understanding why people often don’t – resulting in a cycle of suffering and limitation many fall victim too. I research all things that influence human thought; psychology, neurology, bio chemistry, nutrition, philosophy and the quantum realm.

How is this book different from other books on this topic?
People have busy lives and are juggling many important commitments; career, children, health, wealth and a social calendar and even social responsibilities – in ‘Thinking Your Way to Happy!’ every page stands on its own offering a Life Principle and an Inspiring quote. In this manner, the book becomes a quick reference guide that can be picked up and put down with compelling insight achieved within moments! There is no lengthy time investment for an Ah- ha.

Is there anything else we should know about this book?
Thinking Your Way to Happy! is a simple and delightful book offering 112 life principles for daily power and freedom. Robin H-C is most recognized from her weekly Life Coach guest spot on City TV’s – CP24 inspiring viewers to get enthusiastic about their lives and take action! Robin has offered her expertise to viewers and listeners on; Charles Adler, The Life Network, Breakfast TV, Daytime TV, CTV, and City TV. She has been published in Metro Today, Flare magazine, Palm Beach Post, the Toronto Sun, the Toronto Star, the Bermuda Gazette, the National Post, to name a few. Her next book is due out early 2011.

The book is currently available on this website or at Chapters across Canada and Amazon online.

The American reflected for a moment and finally responded; “I have an MBA from Harvard, and I can help you! You should start by fishing longer every day. You can then sell the extra fish you catch. With the extra revenue, you can buy a bigger boat.” “And after that?” asked the Mexican. “With the extra money the larger boat will bring, you can buy a second one and a third one and so on until you have an entire fleet . Instead of selling your fish to a middle man, you can then negotiate directly with the processing plants and maybe even open your own plant. You can then leave this little village and move to Mexico City, Los Angeles, or even New York City! From there you can direct your huge new enterprise.”

He paused pensive; “How long would that take?” asked the Mexican. “Twenty, perhaps twenty-five years,” replied the American. “And After wards? Well my Friend, That’s when it gets really interesting,” answered the American, laughing. “When your business gets really big, you can start selling stocks and make millions!” “Millions? Really? And after that?” said the Mexican. “Why that’s the best part! – After that you’ll be able to retire, live in a tiny village near the coast, sleep late, play with your children, catch a few fish, take a siesta with your wife and spend your evenings in the village playing guitar, singing a few songs with your friends over drinks and have a very, very full life.”

Robin H-C has is the author of ‘Thinking Your Way to Happy!’ available at Amazon online or Chapters Indigo locations. Each page has a Life Principle and an inspiring quote.